At This Dad Can we’ve been asked by a number of you, “Why the Gorilla, guys?”.

Male Gorillas are the largest primates in the world, with some recorded weighing over 35 stone. Often known for their brute force, dominance and for being muscular animals. However, despite these characteristics, they are also fantastic gentle patriarchs.

The bond that a Silverback has with females forms the core of Gorilla life. Those bonds are sustained by grooming and staying close to one another. The relationship between the Silverback and its offspring is often also supportive, the Silverback will shield them from threats. The constant availability of the Silverback contributes to less intense conflicts between an offspring and its mother.

At This Dad Can we’re passionate about resourcing men to be the Dad’s they want to be. Similar to the Gorilla, we know guys have more under their skin than the muscular, perhaps dominant veneer. At a brief glance, they may appear to conform to gender stereotypes and prejudice, however, we know that the common guy (similar to the Silverback) cares about investing and sustaining their relationship with their partner’s. We know Dad’s support and protect their kids, that they are available and are keen to share the load with their partner's. So, here’s one to the Dad’s, or should we call them Silverbacks.

You're doing a great job, whether you appear to be successful or not, we believe in you. Don't be satisfied with apathy and complacency, continue to strive for better. We know it's the hardest job in the world, with relentless curveballs and setbacks, but today is a new day, and we believe you rock!

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Jon’s the father of two, married for seven years and the Founder & Director of This Dad Can.

He's passionate about health & sport, community action, and personal development. These passions have integrally influenced his character into the man he is today.

This Dad Can resources men, to be the dads they want to be. Covering topics such as happy parenting, communication, supporting mom and practical changes. From short courses to bespoke packages, dads can find us at thisdadcan.co.uk