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Breastfeeding mum? Here’s a gift idea for her. I started my business Boobie Beads when I was breastfeeding my third daughter Sophia. At five months old while feeding, she would pull my hair and scratch my chest. I needed something she could hold onto and play with, instead of me! I asked my Mum for one of her necklaces and she gave me a big chunky one, with different sized beads. Sophia instantly began playing with it, in between feeding. She stopped pulling my hair and scratching, instant hit! I had a ‘lightbulb’ idea and… Read More »Gift for her

Why the NHS needs to get ready for the dads. “The current health service is failing to recognise dad’s needs, enough”. It’s our most controversial statement yet. Is it really that important? After all pregnancy and new-borns are mum’s domain. You sound like another controversial dad group attempting to not relinquish the slowly departing power of hegemonic masculinity or a petty dad, feeling left out… Frankly, yes. It’s time to recognise dad is a patient too. We know health is more than physical, it’s mental too and mental health subsequently impacts your physical health. More… Read More »Why the NHS needs to get ready for the dads

They cost how much! Let’s face it, having more mouths to feed costs money. Rather than get drawn into striving and panic, take a second to see what help is available. “Having a child has a major financial impact. I was pretty bad with money before I had my daughter, but I want her to have the things she wants.” Idris Elba. So if you’re not sure how to claim paternity leave, what benefits are available for new parents or you’ve heard about shared parental leave, but not sure if it’s for you, look no… Read More »They cost how much!

The plunge, why I gave it all up, when I had kids. As a group of guys who were yet to have children, on the rare occasion when the topic of children did come up, it would be linked to our financial circumstances. The conversation would often revolve around developing our careers to gain more money to start a family life well. It appears this theme doesn’t stop there. Becoming a parent for the first time, expecting parents often engage with this topic. Despite traditional gender roles pivoting, men can still be quick to assume… Read More »The plunge, why I gave it all up, when I had kids

5 Reasons Why Dads Need to Spend Time with Their Mates. Being a dad is quite special and no matter how hard, scary and exhausting it can be from time to time, it’s still the essence of life and the best thing that could’ve happened to you. However, although you love your child to death, you still need some alone time. It’s not an excuse, nor a chance to skip your responsibilities, but just a way to stay sane and in touch with your true self. I know that my “me time” makes me a… Read More »5 Reasons Why Dads Need to Spend Time with Their Mates

Give mum Saturday morning off. If you’re in the North West, this isn’t to be missed. Start the weekend by giving mum some time off and treating yourself to a Full English. Have some quality time with your child and meet other local dads. Dad Hour is a time to meet new dads, socialise and exchange stories of vomit, poo and sleep deprivation. For expecting, new and existing dads. So much of life can be consumed by rushing around from one job to the next. Take some time out to invest in yourself and your… Read More »Give mum Saturday morning off

Never miss a Birthday. We’re looking forward to your kid’s birthday and we want you too. It’s a time to celebrate them and recognise what an awesome contribution you’ve made. So why not enjoy the process more with This Dad Can. Ever been in the situation where you clock a birthday last minute, then rushing around so they at least get something? Well no more! Plan your child’s birthday with ease. Here at This Dad Can we provide handy reminders seven and thirty days before your child’s birthday. Prepare strategies with This Dad Can. With… Read More »Never miss a Birthday

Get a grip. Prepare strategies with This Dad Can. Whether it’s the weekly shop or planning larger purchases for a newborn, using our to-do list tool helps you to conceptualise your priorities. It can profoundly change your spending habits and save you money and time. You may have less time on your hands, but don’t let that prevent you from becoming smarter with your time. Use the ‘to-do list’ to be intentional and efficient, with the limited time you do have. Planning the next bit of DIY or getting to grips with the logistics of… Read More »Get a grip

Fathering the fatherless. When men turn 40, it is traditional to have a midlife crisis. Some men start going to the gym and wearing age inappropriate clothes. Others get gripped by a malaise and a mourning for their lost youth. I decided to become a foster carer. More accurately, my wife suggested we explore the possibility of becoming a foster family. Our birth children were 5 and 7, and although I am biased, they are really rather fantastic kids. They tick the academic and sport boxes, and more importantly are very sociable, biddable, and yet… Read More »Fathering The Fatherless

A-Z of parenting terms. Becoming a parent is pretty full on, let alone learning another language. Our A-Z of parenting terms means Dads have one less thing to worry about. Met by the health visitor using unfamiliar words, rather than become disenfranchised and withdrawing, quickly search to understand its meaning, be more involved and enjoy the process more with This Dad Can. Mums often communicate that having their partner attend classes and health visits makes them feel supported and jointly engaged. At This Dad Can we’re passionate about resourcing you to invest in your family. It would… Read More »A-Z of parenting terms